Thousands of people just admitted they’re quietly rejecting the traditional rules of success
This was sparked by one of the most honest and emotional conversations I’ve ever seen on LinkedIn.
I shared a personal story last week about a car I didn’t buy - and how that decision helped me build financial security instead. I’ve just been walking through the park to reflect on the overwhelming response from literally right across the world.
675,000+ views of the post
4,600+ likes
800+ comments
…and a collective exhale I could almost hear through the screen.
People openly shared their stories. Their numbers. The quiet fear that not constantly chasing growth meant they were failing.
They didn’t hold back about:
- Feeling like they have to look successful to be taken seriously
- The quiet joy of driving an old car and owning it outright
- Choosing calm over chaos
- Letting go of “the hustle” and not feeling guilty anymore
- Opting out of overconsumption—and feeling free
It was raw, honest, and so overdue.
What it told me is this:
There’s a quiet majority of us out there who want something different.
We’re not lazy.
We’re not small-minded.
We’re not lacking ambition.
We’re just building our lives, and our businesses - on our own terms.
I think we need to talk more about that.
Because this isn’t about a car.
It’s about a shift.
And I don’t think it’s done yet.
Have you been feeling this shift too? Or quietly living it already?